No BDSM activity is completely risk-free, but preparation can reduce predictable risks. This checklist does not replace training for a specific technique.

Before the scene

  • All participants are adults, sober and voluntarily agree.
  • Boundaries, intensity, duration and stop signals are discussed.
  • A non-verbal signal is set for gag use.
  • Equipment has no cracks, sharp edges, damaged stitching or failed closures.
  • Keys, carabiners or rope shears are accessible.
  • A phone and water are nearby and the area is clear.

Risks by accessory type

Restraint

Never compress the neck. Check colour, temperature, sensation and finger movement. The 8 m Feral Feelings rope is not designed for suspension.

Gags and blindfolds

Confirm clear nasal breathing. Perforations do not replace constant supervision.

Impact play

Begin with minimal force on fleshy muscular areas. Avoid the head, neck, spine, joints, kidneys and abdomen.

During the scene

  1. Increase intensity gradually.
  2. Check comfort and willingness regularly.
  3. Monitor breathing, coordination, skin and emotional response.
  4. Reduce or pause on yellow; stop immediately on red.

Afterwards

Remove restraint slowly, check wellbeing and offer water, warmth or quiet. Clean and dry equipment according to its material.

Browse BDSM accessories and read the guide to boundaries and safewords.

FAQ

Is a safeword enough?

No. Monitoring, check-ins and quick release are also needed.

When should a scene stop?

With sharp pain, numbness, breathing changes, panic, dizziness or a participant's signal.